Dating a recovering alcoholic women

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“How you handle this is not something your partner is likely to forget.” Laurie Davis, an online dating expert based in New York and Boston, suggests asking a friend what sounds most intimidating about your condition and getting his or her advice on how to smooth it over.

Getting a second opinion can help you decide how much to say (and when and where to say it), and running through your script a few times can make you more comfortable sharing your story.

She recommends a conversation bridge, such as, “I feel like were heading in a great direction, so I wanted to tell you something.” Just dont overdo it: “You dont want to frame this in a way that ends up making a bigger deal of something you dont want made into a big deal,” Dr. In other words, make your delivery as drama free as possible.

Allison*, a 30-year-old marketer from Baltimore, tries to casually tell dates about her multiple sclerosis (MS).

Sussman, LCSW, a New York City therapist and relationship expert.

Other events in your medical history, such as addictions, mental illness, past surgeries, and health scares, can easily remain a secret—but should they?Remember, no one deserves to be abused (mentally, verbally, sexually, physically or emotionally) EVER. You do not have to stay in an abusive relationship, no matter how stuck you feel. Dating someone new means learning about each other's quirky behaviors, emotional baggage, and the past experiences that have shaped both of your lives.“Its the smoking and lack of sleeping; its hard to share your life with someone when you need to explain further why you do these things,” she says.Related links: Jill* knows that shell eventually have to confess her situation to a long-term partner.

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