Pros and cons of dating a pothead
Frankly, at my age, I want a grown-up partner; not someone who’s modeling helpless childhood for his children.Do you want your -total- freedom and independence or do you want to be loved?he was smoking one a week when i first knew about it. I found out he had been lying about smoking cigarettes, chewing, and smoking weed. But then this happened and I’m just so insecure, doubtful, hurt, I just can’t believe him. My friends tell me that once a liar, always a liar..Now he smokes 24/7 apart from when he is asleep (well sleeping high for the first hour or two). i confronted him about it (nicely), i was only concerned for his health and his job. I’m just so confused by this relationship, we always have a great time together, been together for 3 years, I’ve never lied to him about anything, I always come out with the truth, we’ve even talked about marriage so why would he do this to me now? Don’t bother making someone stop smoking weed, you can try to make him/her smoke occasionally.I’m a lot more shookin up over loosing him than he is, so I think that basically is an indicator that I need to move on.
I had been with the same guy for a very long time, and recently found out that they had been lying to me about smoking pot.
She tried to say it was her brothers and it was out in the garage but had NO explanation of what it was doing in the kitchen open on the counter. My biggest suspicion is our bathroom off the kitchen has smelled like someone has smoked in there for over a month now. She insists it’s her brothers but I have strong doubts.
She’s lied to me about drinking and this is just too suspicious. I dont think asking my boyfriend to stop smoking is controlling, when your in a serious relationship you change for each other.. My boyfriend agreed to stop smoking and supposedly hasn’t for a while..(he usually does it with his friends and at work!!
Now, I don’t see him and when I do he hides his smoking from me ie. It makes him happy so I don’t want him to stop but just cut down. I don’t think I’ll say anything coz I’ll just sound like a whining girlfriend. Does he have some effin death wish I don’t know about? Weed is easy drug, like coffee cigarettes that means he/she can use it occasionally and can stop smoking 24/7.
The more you deny something to someone the more he does it if he likes it.