Then move to the second phase of troubleshooting outlined below.Did you try to login and get just the blue screen, or a message that said “Disconnected” or “connect failed” or something like that?If you wish to save your username you can register a free account.Just fill in the required details and click on the "Register" button.If you did, or think that you did not do something that got you banned, then read then read info about getting kicked / banned from the chat room for more info.3 – Error message something like “Server sent no data” – first make sure the plugins listed above are updated and try again.While these solutions will not fix 100% of the problems with connecting to our free chat rooms, they do address a majority of the problems that users will run into when trying to connect to our chat systems, and likely many others on the internet as well. You must have the VERY LATEST updates for the Adobe Flash plugin. Even users that have been able to use our free text chat rooms in the past may not be able to connect after a new update to flash or java has been released by sun or adobe.and of course here similar details with more comments here: Chat room connection problems and solutions If you get an error message in Internet Explorer about Active X blocked, you need to click the bar near top of the window and tell IE it’s okay to run our chat program on site – graphic showing this here on java support page. This is due to security issues and is easily resolved by doing on update of these two plugins, and you may need to restart your computer.
You will then have complete access to the men's chat room.
You could get the message “could not connect / server sent no data” and not be on a ban list or a blocked ISP or country list, there could be an issue with your computer firewall, or some other hiccup along the invisible wires of the interwebs.
There are many possible causes for not being able to connect to the chat rooms.
If so, there are many possible causes, especially with our new security layers, it’s no big deal, just get back to the chat room screen, and refresh / reload the page.
Some users will need to get a fresh / non-cached version of the page, so you may need to hold down the shift key while clicking reload / refresh page (most browsers will work with shift F5) ** If you saw a message saying something like “could not connect Server Sent No Data” If you are using a blocked ISP or have been manually added to the ban list- reloading the page will do no good.